A Brief Summary:
A short chapter, M is for Mother, Mothering Sunday performs
two roles. Simply, it compares the mothers of Boy A and Boy B. It appears that
the mother of Boy A is dutiful and kind whereas the mother of Boy B left at an
early stage of his life, only communicating with the family by sending them a
postcard every Mother’s Day.
On a more subtle level it
encourages the reader to think of the lives of these two women and how both
felt let down by their respective husbands. Boy A’s mother is hurt when
Mother’s Day is forgotten and by the general loss of passion in their relationship
that has become “dutiful rather than wonderful”. In contrast it is hardly a
surprise that the mother of Boy B sought to leave her family, particularly her
drunkard husband and her violent older son.
This encouragement to
empathise with the women is brought home most poignantly in the final paragraph
of the chapter. Boy A’s mother recognised him on CCTV footage broadcast on the
news a full five days before his arrest. She has just been waiting for the
inevitable knock on her door. When the police arrive the fear and panic she
feels when she brings Boy A down from his bedroom is starkly conveyed in the
description of the mother and son “…holding hands, on trembling legs”.
Points for consideration:
- This is a novel that constantly surprises
readers by revealing new facts. How does this extra detail about Boy B’s family
background inform our understanding of him and his behaviour?
- To what extent is the writer explaining Boy B’s
behaviour through his parental background? How important is parental
influence in moral development? How important is genetics? How important
is peer influence. How much do you agree with this
article?







